The Lioness Den

We are all made up by feminine and masculine energy. These trainings are for men who have a desire to step into their masculine essence. It lays out a challenge before men to fulfill their authentic masculine essence. Our playground is polarity. A masculine- and a feminine pole, In life it doesn’t matter who takes on those roles, but in these trainings we play and practice with male and female, a woman and a man. The dynamic of polarity is necessary for sexual tension, passion and excitement. We will take these practices to the next level and play with it is as an art form.

Yes, it is about your sexuality. What are your challenges in your Love life? Set your own goals during this trainings and practice them with women who are there to serve you in your journey.

The mystery of the feminine body:
Are you curious about the feminine orgasm, the ability to open for pleasure and feminine sexuality? How to detect when a women is in a freeze?  When and why she closes during love making? How to open every cell of her body to receive pleasure? What factors are necessary for her to dive into a wild and orgasmic love making?

The Dark Side:
Would you like to take a journey into your dark masculine, to explore your boundaries in the dark side of the masculine and see what energy is there? How to transform addictions into opening skills? What gifts the dark side has to offer you? How a women reacts to this part of you? How to initiate her into this part of you? Learn to use your voice (dark talk), posture and energy to create a sexual tension that opens her.

Stages of Masculine:
To totally embrace your masculine essence it is important you understand the 3 stages of masculine from dark to light. These are stages to grow into but also you have different moments when you are in different stages. From Warrior, Killer, Rapist, Philanthropist, Leader, General, Healer, Cult Leader to Ravisher, Supreme Lover, and more… Without judgements on each stage.

Masculine and Feminine Shield:
Where in life did you decide the masculine strength is not safe or appreciated? Learn how it sabotages your relationships and keeps you away from your deepest gifts. How to understand and therefor de-arm a woman’s masculine shield. Learn where you have a feminine shield, developed in fear of the masculine force.

Stages of Feminine:
To deal with the unpredictable nature of the feminine it is important to understand the 3 stages of feminine. You can direct a situation, in or out of the bedroom, and navigate through difficult situation by having this knowledge.

Stages of Lovemaking:
One part of your woman is happy she made you come. Another part of her is disappointed that you’ve allowed yourself to choose a temporary and pleasurable spasm over the endless ravishment of her and the world. We will look at the 1st, 2nd and 3rd stage of lovemaking and how to get to a real communion of the polarities.

When was the last time you really ravished your woman? When was the last time you really “took” her, savagely, lovingly, with no inhibition whatsoever? Has it been so long that you can only get turned on by porn and rape scenes?
We get our sexual education mostly by porn. This gives a distorted vision of sexuality where there is absolutely no room for the feminine sexual experience. Many men get addicted to porn and desensitize their bodies to subtle love making. It can even create depression because of the hormonal dis-balance. It is difficult to sense a woman’s boundary and feel where you make love from love, your senses or from pictures in your head.

I finally have ‘the balls’ to guide men. During the 10 years I facilitate women trainings I invite men to ‘practise upon’. This creates a safe and ecxiting practise for the women to get into their vulnerability, authentic sexuality and feminine power. The men are serving with their presence and it is a beautiful healing process for both sexes. It also heals the feminine and masculine collective painbodies. It is the most grateful work I can think of doing. Now it’s time to serve the masculine. So prepare for the other polarity at the head of the table 😉

You will practise with women who will serve you by guiding you into all the stages of your masculine strength.
During these trainings there will be women from the School of Shakti Priestess Tribe, to ‘practise upon’. They will be of service to the masculine. They will dance, massage, show you how their bodies work, speak to you their wishes on how to open them further, they will call you out on your ‘bullshit’ and guide you into the opening of the senses to a point where the body is as open as it can be for you to enter. There will be no exchange of bodily fluids and nudity only when it’s functional and with consent. We use a lot techniques like the wheel of consent, Shakti Tantra practices, constellations, inquiry, radical honesty. It will be an initiation into all your stages of masculine, from dark to light.


MARCH 2, The (energetic) anatomy of a women’s body, what is a turn-on?
MARCH 16, The Stages of Masculine and Feminine and how to open her,The Masculine and Feminine Shield, where we go off our tracks
MARCH 30, The Dark Masculine, the battery of your masculine essence
APRIL 13, The 3rd Stage Masculine, how to ravish her and open her to the divine
APRIL 27, Stages of Love Making, from dark to light
MAY 11, (open for discussion)
MAY 15-17: follows the Priestess Retreat where the men will be serving the women during a weekend.

Trainings will be given in Amsterdam (East). Please send a mail and the location will be send to you)
19.15 doors are open
19.30 we start
20.00 we train with women
21.15-21.30  we close

€44,- per evening or € 200,- for the whole training excl Priestess Retreat). Max 10 men.
please send a mail to marcia (@) school of shakti. org

To respect the safety of the women who are serving: no contact outside the training. No seeking each other on Facebook or such. If you should meet outside of the training there will be no discussing of the practices. All practices during the training remain secret and sacred.


In these training we will discuss strong sexuality within strong spirituality. For men who are ready for a challenge to go the the next level in your masculine essence. There will not be only talk but a lot of ‘do’.
Twice a month you sit down with your men friends and discuss what you are doing in your love and sex-life and what you are afraid of doing. The conversation are short and simple. Your men friends will give you a behavioral experiment, to get out of your comfort zone something you can do that will reveal something to you, or grant more freedom in your life. With an app group you can keep each other posted on your progress. Men amongst each other should not tolerate mediocrity in one another. A lot of practice amongst each other and with a women or women who are there to serve you, they will give demonstrations and lot’s more.

“The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman’s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved. So don’t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client. Give her your love—the same love that is motivating your questioning—immediately and unmistakably. Walk over to her, look deeply into her eyes, hold her and stroke her, tell her how much you love her, smile, hum her favorite song and dance with her, and chances are, her emotional problem will evaporate. She may still have some situation to deal with, and you may be able to help her with that, but the emotional aspect will be converted to love.” David Deida (way of the superior man)

You can read ‘the way of the superior men” from the author David Deida to already get into the zone.

“Guys, if you consider partaking but you are scared, let me tell you, it only sounds dangerous, but it’s actually really nice.

Marcia knows what she’s doing. ‘Dark masculine’ often sounds real crazy to me, scary, unpredictable and uncontrollable. I guess that’s what it should sound like 😛 there is nothing really crazy about it though, just stepping in your deep power, allowing yourself to have desires and to express them. Nobody will judge you there, it’s all for the sake of collective evolution. Enjoy the ride!” Nikolas (attended Priestess Retreat 2019)

“ik vond het priestess retreat echt geweldig. Ik ben een andere man. Ik zal nooit meer hetzelfde naar vrouwen kijken. Ik begrijp nu veel beter wat presence is en wat het betekent om man te zijn. Ik had er een verwrongen beeld van. Nu weet ik dat vrouwen mij willen zien in al mijn zijn, emoties, flaws en onzekerheden, zolang ik maar present ben. Het was ongelooflijk helend om mezelf zo kwetsbaar te laten zien en door Shakti volledig ontvangen te worden. Ik was zoekende naar purpose. Een nieuw purpose van me is om de Shiva te zijn die beeldschone Shakti’s, zoals jij ze opleidt, helemaal kan ontvangen. Ik wil een betere man zijn. Zodra ik dit voelde, had dezelfde dag een van de vrouwen mij alweer naar een hoger niveau getild. Nu wil ik meer, verder.Diep respect voor wat je met de ladies hebt gedaan. Wat ze in mij los wist te maken, was ongelooflijk. Ik had high hopes, en die zijn nog ver overtroffen. Woorden schieten me te kort. Ik heb al veel gedaan in zelfontwikkeling. Ik ben bij een paar van de grootste influencers in de wereld geweest, bijvoorbeeld Tony Robbins. Maar wat ik met het retreat heb meegemaakt… Dat heb ik nergens anders en de resultaten zijn echt van wereldniveau. Het is een van de beste ervaringen van mijn leven geweest.Mike (attendant Priestess Retreat 2019)